Any resistor is fine really. REW's calibration process will compensate for the resistor and test lead inductance, so I'm not sure why the recommendation is for a "non-inductive" one. Besides, a standard low resistance wirewound 10W sand cast resistor has an inductance in the 0.001mH range, not very significant in the context of speakers and crossovers. My test jig uses a normal 5W sand cast 10 ohm resistor, and it's perfectly fine.
My jig is made for use with a power amp, as well as loopback for speaker measurements:
Here's a schematic for a simple dual channel measurement jig, which can be used with ARTA, REW, or SoundEasy.
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On the port measurement topic, of course "there is a way", multiple ways in fact. One would be to measure nearfield response of the woofer output, and port output. These two measurements can be combined for a total response similar to the software cabinet model. Alternatively, the speaker low frequency response can be obtained using a "mix in box" method. This method can provide a good detail of the total low frequency response output, but won't be able to separate the woofer output from the port output.