Accurately reproduced is what the recording engineer intends for us to hear. I defined it in my previous post... you must have missed it.
I don't have a sub that is too late, but I still need to compensate for the lower frequencies to hear what the engineer intends me to hear. No amount of treatment is going to fix what I am missing and what I should be hearing... unless I just get used to not hearing it and live with it, become accustomed to hearing it.
It is true that at low SPL, the ear is less sensitive to the lowest and highest frequencies than the mids, but this difference diminishes at higher SPL. I.e., the so-called equal loudness contour of Fletcher Munson. And at very low SPL, the lowest bass will even fall below your threshold of hearing (and typically also the noise floor of your room, but that is another matter). But the amount of boost needed depends on the level. Hence the (in)famous loudness button in the old amps. Thus, a static house curve with a 1dB-2dB per octave tilt in SPL below 200Hz regardless of volume will not give you what the recording engineer intended, even if you may prefer it that way in your room and for your music preferences (and I have no objections to that;-).
I am sure you know all this but that is why I get a little confused by your statement in bold. Loudness control is still a good idea I think and can now be implmented better with DSP assuming that you have a calibrated reference level, as for example Lyngdorf Room Perfect does in the "leveling" stage of the room correction procedure (so that -20dBFS will results in 85dB SPL at a "reference" volume setting). But at THX reference levels there should be no need for adjustments above an in-room linear frequency response, as that would be about what the recording engineer heard, at least if you, like the recording engineer, have reasonable control of decay times at all frequencies in your room.
Still, I can certainly respect that many people prefer a bass boost or the various famous tilts. Heck, I even just invested in new stereo subs (4x18" servo, 6,4kW amps) with my Westminsters and active crossovers with Merging HAPI multichannel processor and Audiolense linear phase XO (so it will be perfectly time aligned). So I am a bass junkie and it has to go plenty deep, but it must kick at the right time and decay at a "decent" rate: the bloated bass rumble I hear almost everywhere where people throw a sub in the mix and crank up the volume is the worst of all, IMHO :-) It is by no means perfect in my room either, not yet at least, but the goal I strive for is linear and punchy (so properly time aligned) bass at my "typical" listening levels. I do however prefer a slight downward tilt above 1kHz.